fear of throw need help
#1
Posted 03 January 2005 - 07:44 AM
2. Second practice I got thrown by somebody with a blue belt who did not do any judo for many years and just came back. He is twice as big as me. He went for a tai-otoshi, blocked my leg at knee level (so my knee was under his leg) and applied a lot of force trying to throw me. Even if I would want to be thrown I could not fall that way, as he was blocking my knee with his leg. He kept pulling and eventually I have managed to free my knee, and at that moment he had me thrown right on my head, so I got a headache for a week after that. That was not fun.
Now I have a fear of being trown which affects my randori not in a good way. What do I do, how I get rid of it.
Thank you
#2
Posted 03 January 2005 - 08:42 AM
My advice to you is:
1. Keep practicing your breakfalls
2. Make sure you warm-up and stretch properly EVERY TIME
3. Either fight lighter and "go with the throw" OR
4. Politely ask if he would mind not fighting you and leave him to the more experienced players until he gets better.
As you get more experience you will become better at avoiding bad or rough techniques. You will also begin to trust your breakfalls more.
As for you fear - it is like a barking dog. If you stay and face it it will go away - but if you run - it will chase you and keep snapping at your heels until you DO face it.
Budokan Judo Club Australia
Makotokan Aikido Club Sydney
Universal Combat Academy BJJ/MMA Castle Hill
#3
Posted 03 January 2005 - 10:31 AM
jugogido, on Jan 3 2005, 06:42 PM, said:
My advice to you is:
1. Keep practicing your breakfalls
2. Make sure you warm-up and stretch properly EVERY TIME
3. Either fight lighter and "go with the throw" OR
4. Politely ask if he would mind not fighting you and leave him to the more experienced players until he gets better.
As you get more experience you will become better at avoiding bad or rough techniques. You will also begin to trust your breakfalls more.
As for you fear - it is like a barking dog. If you stay and face it it will go away - but if you run - it will chase you and keep snapping at your heels until you DO face it.
Great advice Judogido. Nothing else really needs to be said. As JG said prepare, prepare and never avoid the issue. If you confront things in life (including fear of breakfalls) they will eventually melt away.
#4
Posted 03 January 2005 - 07:08 PM
What I did...
I asked one of our sensei's for help. He took me aside and we worked on crash pads for the whole training session. He gave me advice on where I was going wrong and doing it right.
Then, I started coming to class early and working all of my ukemi (front rolls, back, side, etc). Over, and over, and over...(you get the idea!)
From there, I started being thrown...on my own terms. If a judoka is not playing nice, I don't exchange throws with him. Simple as that. Have the higher ranks throw you....they will not let you get hurt...and it will boost your confidence back to where it needs to be for falling.
Lastly...when you're beginning to feel the confidence again (and you will), exchange throws with another friendly judoka as often as possible.
#5 Guest_Guest_bob_stra_guest
Posted 04 January 2005 - 04:59 AM
Spend some time working with those *much less* skilled than you (kids etc) or *much more* skilled than you (black belt any up). IOW - someone who you know can't really hurt you or whom you can trust not to hurt you.
There's a reason why they don't let yellow belts randori with each other much: - they tend to hurt each other.
I don't wanna pass judgement on the other fella - certainly by blue belt level he should have good control. But sometimes ego / the need to win makes fools of us all.
And remember - it's ok to walk away from rearholes. It really, really is. I have a hard time with it myself, but you know, I figure not everyone is a dense as I am :-)
('sides, you owe them nothing - and you can be certain they won't be paying your hospital bills either)
But remember - minor injures are a part of the game. Headaches from bad falls = ok. Broken, twisted, tweaked, fractured = not ok.
#6
Posted 04 January 2005 - 05:20 AM
Both approaches are sound -- ease off and practice with kids until you feel more confident, or face the demon and overcome it more directly. The real key is to know when you are not feeling right about practice. If you aren't ready to go at it then back off. There is no need to chase after the barking dog, just don't run away.
"Plum Blossoms Open Because of the Frost and Snow"
Adversity does not cause a judoka to wither; it helps him or her to flourish.
#7
Posted 04 January 2005 - 07:58 PM
#8
Posted 05 January 2005 - 11:47 PM
judojohn, on Jan 4 2005, 12:58 PM, said:
It's amazing how experienced Judokas and teachers can launch you so high and yet set you down like a baby!
#10
Posted 06 January 2005 - 01:49 AM
I have had a couple of instances where I have been dropped heavy by one of the Sempai (Assistant Instructor), funny enough out of Tai Otoshi also, and landed square on the lumbar of the spine. As Taigyo said...your Tori must have Control. We practise a commitment in Judo that is mutual respect. Basically you train with someone, the way you want them to train with you.
I'd expect that you have told your club Sempai / Sensei, and respectfully they will probably not let you train with that person [apart from talking to that person about their throwing skills]. Train with the Sensei wherever possible for a while.
My Sensei is a National Champion at Nage No Kata. So when I had to do it for my Shodan grading, I was in compelte faith with him. Honestly, these are big throws, and include some Sacrifice throws too, and I felt fine.
You'll be ok.
#11
Posted 06 January 2005 - 04:17 AM
I was pretty much okay, but I had a nasty kink in my neck that hurt for about 10 days and was just totally afraid to be thrown by Uki Waza.
Eventually I just had a bunch of guys throw me with uki waza whether I liked it or not for about 10 minutes, and I was pretty much back on the horse.
#12
Posted 10 January 2005 - 04:32 PM
He told me once he had never had a bad injury from Judo - not surprising given no one wants to do randori with him. Its funny, the instructors even avoid him.

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